In reflecting on the last week, I’ve noticed a trend and it relates to one of my favorite parts of the movie Breakfast at Tiffany’s. In case you haven’t seen it, the two main characters decide to have a Day of Firsts, in which they spend the whole day doing things they’ve never done before. While I did not go into any costume stores and try on different masks, I have experienced a variety of things from drinking a hot purple drink at breakfast to getting hit by multiple water balloons while walking down the street.
#1 First: The Cancha
This is an area in the city of Cochabamba that spreads for many acres and is filled with vendors selling anything from food to ovens for your kitchen. Some roads are wider and cars can drive (very slowly due to all the people) on them and some pathways are very narrow and only for pedestrians. I went with a list: tape, paper, notebook, envelopes, mouthwash. On the way to find these items, I walked past lots of clothing, both used and new; canteens; guns; produce; little carts of random items like toothpaste and locks; stereo systems; farm equipment; mattresses and beds etc. I didn’t see even half of it! At one point I felt just like I was in the rabbit’s hole of Alice and Wonderland, except instead of being surrounded by dirt, I was surrounded by a never-ending tunnel of clothes…ahhhh, it was frightening.
#2 First: Pre-Carnival in Cochabamba
One day last week I am walking to the institute from my house (about a mile away) and I feel something hard and then suddenly cold and wet hit my back. I let out a little yelp and once I realize it’s a water balloon, I start smiling…this is all part of my enculturation into Cochabamba. Despite the fact that my jeans were wet for the remainder of the day, I was happy to be that much more included in the normal pre-Carnival-life of a Cochabambina. It’s the custom here to throw water balloons and squirt people with water guns beginning in mid-January through Fat Tuesday (Carnival) and even a couple weeks beyond. Apparently, young women are the prime targets—lucky me! Actually I am lucky because I’ve had several balloons just miss me and once my back was skimmed by a poor-shot from a water gun, so to make it till late January to be really hit, I consider quite lucky.
#3 First: Cleaning the bathroom & Vacuuming
Just when I think there are agreed-upon ways to do a given task, I am very quickly put in my place. I’ve never seen or imagined cleaning a bathroom like my host-mother cleaned mine. I wish I could re-enact the scene for you, but I’ll do my best to use words. The bathroom is tiled on the floor and the walls with no separation between the area where one showers and the rest of the room—just all open, not even a shower curtain. My host-mom sprinkled soap on the floor, the toilet and the sink and then filled up a recycled coffee tin with water and starts throwing it on everything—the walls, the toilet, the floor. I wanted to sweep beforehand to get the dust and dirt out but NO, “this way is much better and easier,” which I found out to be true. She used the broom to scrub the wet floor and then used a very large squeegee to push the water towards the end of the bathroom with the shower drain. Fascinating.
Afterwards, I used a little vacuum with just the hose to vacuum my industrial-carpeted bedroom. I had to laugh while I was tediously trying to cover this large area with a mechanism that only had a 2” diameter. I have to admit, at this moment, I did think “Wow, if only I were at home, I could get a simple attachment that would make this process so much easier.” I’m sure they exist here, we just don’t have one.
#4 First: Food and Drink
I learned that “tunas” are the same as prickly pears. The same day we picked and ate the tunas, we also made fresh coconut juice. It was delicious! Also, I’m not very good at spelling in Spanish and the corn-mush dish I made with my family is actually called “humintas”. This morning for breakfast I had “api” which is a drink made from purple corn, sugar, cinnamon and another unknown spice. It was a little too sweet for me at breakfast but had a good flavor. Never drank anything purple beside a slurpee before!
#5 First: Creatures
I rolled over this morning to look at my alarm clock and for some reason happened to also look down at the floor. Directly beneath my head was a scorpion. I try to take the Buddhist approach of respecting all life, but I failed this morning because I didn’t want to risk picking it up. So, I killed my first scorpion.
Yesterday as I was walking down the road, two dogs started coming at me growling, so I bent down to the ground and the turned away in fright—it worked!
I can’t picture Audrey Hepburn in any of the situations I was in, but I love the concept so much that I just had to borrow it. Here’s hoping you too find some “firsts” of your own this week. Life is full of them!
5 Things I’m thankful for today: sun coming out after days and days of rain; drinkable water; going out to eat really good food with new friends; being able to run; the grace of not being sick.
Nora,
ReplyDeleteI like the way your host mom cleans! It sounds like you're having such a good time. I too would have killed the scorpion. Yikes...
Know you are loved and appreciated,
Deb and family
I'm so glad you're feeling better and you were feeling up to running. You are really brave - I would have just screamed when I saw the scorpion! I was chased by a dog once and made the mistake of running - not good!! You are in my prayers everyday.
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When I read your story in the Herald I was inspired and touch by what you are doing. Especially, since I’m from Cochababa Bolivia (for us La Llajta). I hope some day I can follow your foot steps and go and announce the Good News. I want to thank you and encourage you in your calling and I will be praying for you and all the missionaries in the world that the Lord provides for you and give you the spirit of St, Paul to answer to your calling. I was upset a few months ago when I heard a comment about the current president of Bolivia how he is taking Bolivia away from the faith. I said to my self where was the church to announce to him the Good News so he would not be doing what he is doing. By the way please prey for him that he may come to know the Lord. When this thought came to my mind, I was thinking of the clergy. I forgot that I’m also part of this church and I’m also called to announce this Good News. I also thought if someone would ask me to go to Bolivia and live in the country side (el altiplano) to announce His Good News. Would I go? So you help me a lot. Please pray for me that God will be me the spirit that you have. Your two question also help me a lot, “How will you honor Me?”, “What I should do with this life that I’ve been given?” They remind me what I need to be asking my self everyday so I remain in his will. I have six children and many nephews and nieces and will share your story with them. May God be always with you and your family. I wish I could ask your parents what they did with you so I can do the same with my children. It looks like they did I great job transmitting the faith to you.
ReplyDeletePs About the los perros, when I was there, what I did is to stay still when they were coming toward me, with my hands to my sides and avoid looking at them directly. And call in your inside voice to the saint of the dogs, San Roque many times until the dogs will walk away. I’m not sure what is the name of this Saint in English. Do ever run, it is the worst thing you can do when they are coming toward you. They are also afraid of the water.
As far as the food, my recommendation is my favorite dish Chajchu o Charque, soups I would pick chairo, sopa de mani, y las famosas lawas, especially de ones made of chuño and whole wheat. I hope this helps. Buen Probecho:>)
Hey Nora,
ReplyDeleteYour blogs are great to read. Good luck in language school, keep strong in prayer, and savor the time. You remain in my prayers
Fr George Corrigan, OFM
Hi Nora, This is test # 4. I don't know what I'm doing wrong when I post my comment & go on to send it, the computer tells me it can't be posted. My son is here now to help me trouble shoot my problem. That aside, I am enjoying your expressive writings about your experiences. Pictures too On another side, your hands & back energy might be heavily missed here in Va. as another snow storm of great proportion is about ready to fall from the skies upon us. Take care. Barb C
ReplyDeleteHello Nora in my comments about the perros on 2/3/10 I said “Do ever run" I meant to write DO NOT EVER RUN that is the worst thing you could do. Reading your Blog it open my eyes to see how much there is the need of God not just in Bolivia but the whole world. It also invites me to stop being selfish. I will ask my family to pray for you. Thanks again, you make feel like I'm in Cochabamba myself. May God continue to bless you. Take care.
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